That's a good point, because especially East Germanics seem to have kept ties with the North through the ages. Not just when they influenced the whole Germanic world in the early phase, but later on as well. I'm actually convinced that there was no big break of the oral tradition and communication, not at all. A couple of generations are nothing for a clan based society, with a rich oral tradition and proud, clan based ancestor worship. You can't compare them with post-Christian farmers or think they lived isolated from others in the East. That was not the case. Even less so for the Langobards which lived always close to fellow Germanics. This makes the latter case more complicated, because we actually have to assume different Germanic influences being combined in their tradition. One can't conclude from the presence of one on the absence of another. Only present or absent yDNA can prove that if taken on a large scale - also the modern Italian subpopulations with the strongest Lombard tradition might give us hints. Did someone check that already in detail on FTDNA and YFull?
Actually that is usually, up to modern times, correlated pretty closely with the situation the offering party is living with. Like if they need help or workforce, desperately, they might make all kind of promises, but once the situation changes, they will prefer to get rid of the ballast. Another problem of that kind of agreements is that they were usually personal. Like between king X and the prince Y and his warriors. But what if king X died, and his heir, king Z wasn't willing to fulfil the old agreement? That was part of the reason why many communities and individuals in Medieval times wanted, as soon as the new king took over, an official confirmation of their old rights and privileges, sometimes smuggling something into it which wasn't granted before. That was actually a major issue throughout Medieval Europe and is so, in a different framework, up until now. With every new ruler or ruling party, the old agreements might be called into question. That's a major source of conflict and unrest. This was just a very early example, one among many. Similar problems emerged in the Persian or Hellenistic states too.
Kings in a weak position had to grant all kinds of rights and privileges, even if they ruined his state and people. Taking them back was a difficult and dangerous task only strong kings could do. So if they didn't need their help as desperately any more, they might have reconsidered it.
For later times, many German settlements under the colonisation of the East were founded "with their own German rights". That was part of the deal and led to the spread of German customs first to the East with German settlers, later to all Catholic states, which largely copied the German laws (like the Magdeburger law). So its not that unusual at all, even for later times.